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Don’t give that remote control to others says BK Shivani

BK Shivani

BK Shivani renowned Spiritual Mentor from the Brahma Kumaris, delivered a talk on “Harmonising Relationships Through Spiritual Wisdom”  at Imperial Gardens, Sikh Village Road in Secunderabad. The talk was organised as part of the series of programs the spiritual movement Brahma Kumaris have been organising in the city.

Here are few important life lessons that BK Shivani spoke of during the insightful talk.

Who Gives You Love, Money or Status 

We all want pyar(love), money, status, respect, appreciation, right?  But who gives them? If everyone wants from others what about giver. Where does he or she get it from?  Firstly, one should not expect anything from others. Will somebody give it to you? or do you earn it?  You have to earn them with full control of your mind over your body.

Be a boss of your own mind

Nobody can hurt you, insult, talk cheap about you. Nobody can take your time away.  They can’t spoil your mood, make mockery of you unless and until you give them that opportunity. So be your boss.

Don’t give that remote control to others

Nobody can hurt you, insult, talk cheap about you. Nobody can take your time away.  They can’t spoil your mood, make mockery of you unless and until you give them that opportunity. So be your boss.  Don’t give that remote control to others!

You are the master of your thoughts

You are the master of your thoughts, feelings, and responses. Please reflect on this: “Do I create anger, or do people make me angry, irritate me?” She asked and explained to them to realize that every emotion, including anger, happiness, frustration, is a choice. Today, please affirm to yourself, “I am not a slave to anyone or any situation. The remote control of my mind is in my hands.”

So you need to exercise control over your mind.  Take charge of your mind. Be a captain of it.

Practice Feeling Powerful

“I AM A POWERFUL” being. All conflicts are within and not with others. You must realise this.

The feeling of being positive or Negative, it is in our mind.  It depends on how you respond or react to it.   Check your responses to the situations. Can any one disturb me or I get disturbed myself. Do I have the power to disturb you? Can I enter your mind? Nobody can disturb me, I am getting disturbed due to my own thoughts. I have given power to others to disturb me

She advised her disciples to keep their mind under their control. ‘You are the master of your mind. Be strong and handle your feelings. Learn to be happy in all situations’,

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